Indian educator and women's rights activist Mary Roy was an indomitable powerhouse who successfully fought for a change in inheritance law which saw female Syrian Christians entitled to an equal share of familial property. She fought her brother, G Isaac, all the way to the Supreme Court of India, in the landmark case Mary Roy v State of Kerala and Others.
Mrs Roy's daughter, Booker Prize winning author Arundhati Roy, had a complex relationship with her mother which she explores in her memoir Mother Mary Comes To Me (2025). Mrs Roy, as she is called throughout, was a larger-than-life presence. Roy says of her mother that 'she was complete without me and I was incomplete without her', describing her as 'my shelter and my storm'.Arundhati's alcoholic father Mickey left when she was two years old, and Mrs Roy returned to Kerala and built a life for herself, establishing a well-regarded school and becoming a beloved teacher and local celebrity. Arundhati and her brother had very different relationships with their mother, and Arundhati could not wait to get away. She enrolled in the School of Planning and Architecture in Delhi, determined to become an architect. Here she met an architect and had a brief marriage, before turning to work in television and film with her new husband, filmmaker Pradip Krishen.
Arundhati shares her mother's activism and used her skills as a writer to draw attention to issues that concerned her - including anti-globalisation, colonialism, environmentalism and other social causes. In 1992 she turns to writing fiction and spends several years writing the semi-autobiographical novel The God of Small Things (1996) which went on to win the Booker Prize and become an international bestseller. Her second novel, The Ministry of Utmost Happiness (2017) came two decades later. The fame and wealth that came from her work never sat well with her, and she continues to donate her royalties to human rights causes.
There were long periods when Arundhati and her mother were estranged, but Mrs Roy's presence looms over everything. Indeed Mrs Roy is the inspiration for the character Ammu in The God of Small Things. Mrs Roy was proud of her daughter's success, to the extent that it was a demonstration the quality of education received at her school. As the two women get older, their relationship evolves, though never entirely heals. When Mrs Roy eventually succumbs to old age, Arundhati has lost her mother and her muse.
Mother Mary Comes to Me is an extraordinary memoir of Arundhati Roy's life and career. The book has received great acclaim, winning the National Book Critics Circle Award for biography and was recently shortlisted for the 2026 Women's Prize for Non-Fiction. The memoir is full of heart, humour and history - a wonderful story of mothers and daughters, and of artistic passion.
Having finished the book, I now want to go back and read The God of Small Things again in a completely different light, with a greater depth of meaning than when I read it almost thirty years ago.
I highly recommend the audiobook version of Mother Mary Comes to Me, read with passion and heart by the author herself.



































